There are many ways to be happier in life.  Most boil down to simple things that can have
a profound positive impact in our life. 
One such strategy I heard the other day is to simply retell the stories
of our positive moments in life as well as our stories of our ability to bounce
back from difficult ones.  This act alone
can help us succeed the duration of our lifetime.  
Reflecting on the positive and telling stories of our
positive moments will do two things for us.  
First, when we talk about the positive, we automatically feel more positive
the moment we are speaking about it.  It
is nearly impossible to retell a positive story and somehow feel negative about
life at that same moment.  Therefore
reflecting on the positive will make us almost automatically more
positive.  Second, when we reflect on the
positive, I believe we attract more positive things in to our life.  Often simply retelling positive stories will
help us look for them and we will become more aware that they are all around
us.  
Retelling stories of our ability to bounce back from
difficult times will do a few things for us as well.  First, it will give us the courage and
confidence we need to move forward in life as we are reminded that we can overcome hard things.  When life throws
us a curve ball, we will know we can successfully handle it because we have in
the past.  Second, it will help others
who are facing challenges or difficulties know they can conquer them too.  When we tell stories about the difficult
things we’ve bounced back from, it gives all who hear it hope.   
These two simple acts, retelling the stories of our positive
moments in life and retelling the stories of how we have bounced back from
difficult ones will provide balance and sustain us and help us thrive for in
life.  This is a simply strategy that can
help pave a pathway to success and increased happiness in life.  Stories are powerful reminders in our
lives.  We all love good stories and we
are all shaped by them.  I encourage all
of us to be story tellers, if not for our own benefit, than at least for the
benefit of those around us.        
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