Measuring success at first glance seems easy—we simply look at what someone has accomplished and determine if we believe that makes them worthy to be considered successful or not. To me however, I believe this is a false or inaccurate measurement of success. The reason is because many times achievements alone are not enough. Many seemingly successful people in life who have accomplished many great things are actually miserable and unhappy. And would we consider a miserable and unhappy person successful in life? Therefore, to me, accomplishments alone cannot be a good measurement. So then, how do we determine true success in life? Let me tell you my thoughts.
Our society teaches us that the successful person is one who has been recognized for their great accomplishments, and in turn has received many great accolades and respect. True, in a certain way these people are successful. But I believe there is even a more important way to truly measure success in life. This measurement is not so much about what we do or what we accomplish, but is more about who we become. To me, the real measurement of success is being a great person rather than simply being recognized for doing some great feat.
Why is who we become a more important measurement of success in life? Because in order for us to reach a full level of satisfaction and happiness in life, in order for us to be at peace with ourselves, we must become something and not just achieve something. Those who “become” are happy regardless of what they achieve in the worlds eyes, while those who only “achieve” often are rarely happy at all.
So what does it mean to become something? To me it means we must change our nature. Human nature is that we have an innate desire to fulfill our own needs and desires often without regard for others. This attitude follows must of us throughout our life. To actually become someone, we must find a way to overcome this and flip it on its head. We must put off our “natural man” and become someone who truly loves, cares, and wants the best for others before our self. This is not easy! In fact, most can’t seem to do it totally because our natural tendencies are so strong. But being this type of person—a person who puts others before self—is really what true success looks like. This is the best way to measure success because those who “become” are the most happy and satisfied in life.
So all of the awards, prizes, and accomplishments do mean something and are nice to receive but in the end, they will mean very little to us if we have not at the same time become a great person. Being a great person brings joy and peace in life. Being a great person equals success.
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